Perselingkuhan dalam Sudut Pandang Psikiatri

Menina Vilanova Syamsuri, Suksmi Yitnamurti

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Perselingkuhan adalah pelanggaran sebuah kepercayaan, pengkhianatan sebuah hubungan, pemutusan sebuah kesepakatan. Faktor penyebabnya meliputi masalah dalam pernikahan, tujuan dari perselingkuhan itu sendiri, psikodinamika pelaku, kepribadian pelaku, dan perilaku seksual pelaku. Faktor yang mempengaruhi terjadinya perselingkuhan antara lain gender, usia, pendidikan, pekerjaan, ekonomi, pandangan agama, budaya, dan lain-lain. Tipe perselingkuhan dapat berupa emosional, seksual dan campuran emosional dan seksual. Kontrol sosial akan berfungsi sebagai prevensi. Dampak perselingkuhan dalam bidang medis adalah penyebaran penyakit menular seksual seperti HIV, Herpes, Chlamydia dan Hepatitis serta adanya paternal discrepancy. Pada dampak psikologis akan mempengaruhi pelaku, pasangan bahkan anak. Hasil dari perselingkuhan akan berupa perceraian dan perbaikan keretakan (recovery).

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Perselingkuhan, pernikahan, perceraian, perbaikan keretakan

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